Many different flowers have romantic connotations, from roses to forget-me-nots. When you are in love or falling in love, few gifts seem quite as appropriate as flowers to express how you feel. But what is the etiquette behind dating and flowers? When should you give flowers? Which flowers should you give? What flower colors are best to convey what you are thinking? Read on to find the answers!
SHOULD I BRING FLOWERS ON A FIRST DATE?
The answer to this question will vary depending on the couple and the date. Sometimes, picking your sweetheart up at the door for the first date with a bouquet in hand is a tender gesture that makes things special. On other occasions, it might come across as too formal or old-fashioned.
So which is it for you? You need to think about your relationship to find the answer. If you have known each other for a while or hung out a few times, but are just now going on an actual “first date,” flowers might be appropriate. If you met someone recently and asked them out — or if you are going on a blind date — you might want to hold the flowers for a date or two to avoid coming on too strong.
You should also consider the occasion’s formality. If you’ve planned a fancy dinner date, flowers match the cinematic romance of the situation. If you are doing something casual like meeting for coffee, flowers might feel a bit too over the top.
To let the other person know how much you care for them and advance your relationship development, plan to bring flowers on an early date. For casual or less well-acquainted couples, the third date is the perfect time to spring the bouquet surprise.
WHY SEND FLOWERS?
The tradition of gifting flowers to someone you’re dating has stood the test of time. Flowers send an affectionate, appreciative message to someone you care about.
Here are some reasons to buy a date flowers.
1. To Express Interest
Sending flowers to someone you’re dating conveys your interest in the relationship you’re building. Beautiful bouquets are a well-known sign of love or passion for the receiver, especially someone you’ve been dating.
2. Make a Good Impression
If you’re newly dating someone, you’ll want to put your best foot forward. Sending flowers to someone you enjoy getting to know and spend time with is an excellent way to make a good impression. You’re still establishing a connection and learning everything about this person, so presenting your best self can help show your interest as your connection deepens.
3. Gifting Flowers as Tradition
Sending flowers to someone special on specific holidays, like birthdays and Valentine’s Day, is a tradition many people enjoy. If you know one of these occasions is coming up, make sure you order and send flowers in time for them to arrive.
4. Make Them Smile
If you know the person you’re dating had a bad day or has been busy at work all week, send them flowers to cheer them up. Flowers are the perfect gift that will put a smile on anyone’s face.
5. Just Because
You don’t need a specific reason to send flowers to someone you care about. If you find a lovely bouquet at the store or see one online that you think the person you’re dating would enjoy, send them a “just-because” gift.
WHEN SHOULD I SEND FLOWERS?
Dates aren’t the only time you should consider giving flowers to your new flame. You might get more mileage out of sending flowers to your significant other’s home or workplace as a surprise. Birthdays, anniversaries, and Valentine’s Day are all obvious reasons to send or give flowers, but you might want to send flowers out of the blue after a few weeks or months of dating. Sending flowers on a whim can mean even more than sending them for a specific occasion, and can add a dash of surprise and romance to your relationship.
If you and your significant other get in a fight, you might also send a bouquet to apologize. However, don’t only show up with flowers after unhappy times. When used exclusively for apologies, flowers can start to seem more like a crutch than a romantic gesture. Giving a bouquet after a big blowout might help smooth things over, but try to keep your flower-giving habits linked to joyous occasions.
WHAT TYPE OF FLOWERS?
The wonderful thing about flowers is each type carries a different meaning and looks uniquely beautiful. If you’re searching for the perfect flower to give to your date, you have a large selection to choose from. You’ll find plenty of flowers to be a lovely date gift and put a smile on your date’s face.
Buying flowers is simple when you know which types are perfect for the occasion. Consider gifting one of these types of flowers when you go on a date.
- Roses: A red rose is a staple gift if you’re looking to send a message of love and romance. If you’ve been on a few dates and want to show how much you care about this person, roses are an excellent option.
- Orchids: Orchids will last a long time. These flowers are elegant and express love and beauty.
- Lilies: You can find lilies in various colors and gift a vibrant bouquet to your date.
- Tulips: A lovely alternative to a bouquet of roses is a bouquet of tulips. These springtime flowers are romantic and come in various colors.
WHAT COLOR FLOWERS ARE BEST FOR A DATING GIFT?
The answer to this question depends a bit on the type of flower you are buying. For instance, red and pink roses symbolize romance. Red tulips also signify love, but tulips are symbols of “perfect love” regardless of their color. If you want to dig into color and symbolism, do some Googling to find out what particular flowers represent. Alternatively, learn your significant other’s favorite color and flower, then theme your bouquets accordingly.
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